In my previous article I mentioned how important it is to
act professional because you never know where your next big opportunity may
come from. In this article I wanted to dig a little deeper into that statement
because it is about more than just being professional.
Don’t ever kid yourself, you are always on stage and you are
always being judged, as I pointed out in two previous articles “First
Impressions” and “Stage Right”. In those articles I expressed the importance of
always acting professional because of the fact that you are always being
watched and judged. However, another key reason is; that you never know what
circumstances may lead to winning the trust of your next customer.
I have developed many lifelong relationships with customers.
However, I never knew where I was going to meet them or where the next one may
come from. In many cases they were referrals from relationships I had made, but
one outstanding customer that comes to mind, came from an unexpected source.
I have always loved my job and for one specific reason. I am
in the business of helping people. Whether it is helping internal team members
accomplish their career goals, or helping customers by providing them with
solutions to their problems, I have always loved helping others.
The one area most people over look when it comes to helping
others, is other businesses. I have always made it a point to do what I can to
help other businesses succeed. Not just businesses where I can gain a benefit,
but anyone I can help, in anyway. This held true with a salesperson I met who
was with Stanley Steamer Carpet Cleaning. Now in most cases, an electrical
services provider would just grin, nod and move on when they met a carpet
cleaning company sales person. However, staying true to my personal commitment
to try to help everyone, we connected, and I was actually able to really help
him out by sending him a lot of work when I had customers that needed those
services. (Let me clearly state, this was only after we had a serious talk
about how important my network is and how I will not jeopardize the trust of my
network by recommending someone that doesn't follow the same guiding principles
to which I strictly adhere.)
Once he had earned my trust I was able to freely recommend
his services knowing that he would do what he promised and provide an excellent,
quality service. I did that in an effort to help him and the company he worked
for, not ever expecting that there would be any return on my efforts. However,
as it turned out, nearly a year later, this particular sales person ended up
having a relative that received a job managing two 40 story towers in the downtown
area. He recommended us to his relative and it has now turned into a great
relationship where we provide electrical and systems services to both
buildings. I have many examples of similar circumstances where I received a
recommendation from an unexpected source, yet I am always pleasantly surprised
when it happens.
I have attended more networking functions than I care to
admit, and I always see the Feeders working the rooms. However, I believe, that
you must give four times as much as you take if you want to build a meaningful
relationship. So if you stop “selling” and start helping you may just
find an unlimited amount of true partners within your network, singing your
praises. If not, at least you helped others, and there is no better feeling. So
stay honest and try to help others every chance you get, because you never know
where your next customer may come from.
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